De-meterializing online

I've found that maintaining an 'adequate' online social presence is almost as demanding as owning alot of stuff.

Blogging requires weekly (and preferably daily) entries to keep your audience coming back (or subscribed to the RSS feed) for more.

Just BEING on facebook, myspace or any of the other sites out there requires 'a few hours' to a day or two, per month (for some per week) to keep up with the 'social interation' required to be an active user.

Twitter... don't get me started. And the social pressure it creates ('you should get on twitter more often'... got that again this Saturday from a dear friend).

I'm very tempted to shut down all the online social interaction stuff as well (including this blog). I've largely done it but it keeps poking at me, trying to pull me back.

Like owning stuff and feeling owned by it, owning a blog/twitter/facebook account also feels like I'm owned by it (it, literally, requires you feed it). If you don't feed them, they start to yell at you (usually through your friends).

Renting money

I love this quote (from http://patrick.net/housing/crash3.html):

"If you don't own a house but want to live in one, your choice is to rent a house or rent money to buy a house. To rent money is to take out a loan. A mortgage is a money-rental agreement. House renters take no risk at all, but money-renting owners take on the huge risk of falling house prices, as well as all the costs of repairs, insurance, property taxes, etc. Since you can rent a house for 2% of its price, but have to pay 6% to borrow the equivalent amount of money, it is much cheaper to rent the house than to rent the money."

It's true.. you can rent a place to live, or, you can rent money, at a higher cost and alot of risk, to get a place to live.

That's why I sold my pr0perty and now am a happy renter.

Black Friday

Today is Black Friday, that day after Thanksgiving when the American Christmas Shopping season kicks into gear. It is an orgy of consumer consumption. I wonder how much of this stuff that's bought today really matters very much. How much improves a life (how many different ways home food processors chop a carrot, afterall?).

I'm not even leaving the house today. Those shoppers are like hungry packs looking for the best parking place, the best deal and the shortest line. Aggresive, hungry and intent on winning.

Safer to just watch the crappy after Thanksgiving TV, write some, read some, game a bit and relax.

less is more

Sometimes a simple presentation is all you need.

Less is more

view presentation (tags: meditation development sustainable more)

Life, explained.

I know this has been around a few times, but it's a useful little story to read every so often just to keep things in perspective.

A boat docked in a tiny Mexican village. An American tourist complimented the Mexican fisherman on the quality of his fish and asked how long it took him to catch them.

"Not very long," answered the Mexican.

"But then, why didn't you stay out longer and catch more?" asked the American.

The Mexican explained that his small catch was sufficient to meet his needs and those of his family.

The American asked, "But what do you do with the rest of your time?"

"I sleep late, fish a little, play with my children, and take a siesta with my wife. In the evenings, I go into the village to see my friends, have a few drinks, play the guitar, and sing a few songs. I have a full life."

The American interrupted, "I have an MBA from Harvard and I can help you! You should start by fishing longer every day. You can then sell the extra fish you catch. With the extra revenue, you can buy a bigger boat."

"And after that?" asked the Mexican.

"With the extra money the larger boat will bring, you can buy a second one and a third one and so on until you have an entire fleet of trawlers. Instead of selling your fish to a middle man, you can then negotiate directly with the processing plants and maybe even open your own plant. You can then leave this little village and move to Mexico City, Los Angeles, or even New York City! From there you can direct your huge new enterprise."

"How long would that take?" asked the Mexican.

"Twenty, perhaps twenty-five years," replied the American.

"And after that?"

"Afterwards? Well my friend, that's when it gets really interesting," answered the American, laughing. "When your business gets really big, you can start buying and selling stocks and make millions!"

"Millions? Really? And after that?" asked the Mexican.

"After that you'll be able to retire, live in a tiny village near the coast, sleep late, play with your children, catch a few fish, take a siesta with your wife and spend your evenings drinking and enjoying your friends."

And the moral of this story is: ......... Know where you're going in life... you may already be there.

The New Survivalists

OK, this is a bit weird, and I'm not in this camp at all, but I find it interesting that there's a movement of survivalists, a growing group, sort of spontaniously appearing, across the country.

I think it's related to de-materialism, but more extreme.

This article from the Associated Press, titled Energy fears looming, new survivalists prepare outlines it.

An excerpt:

BUSKIRK, N.Y. (AP) — A few years ago, Kathleen Breault was just another suburban grandma, driving countless hours every week, stopping for lunch at McDonald's, buying clothes at the mall, watching TV in the evenings.

That was before Breault heard an author talk about the bleak future of the world's oil supply. Now, she's preparing for the world as we know it to disappear.

Breault cut her driving time in half. She switched to a diet of locally grown foods near her upstate New York home and lost 70 pounds. She sliced up her credit cards, banished her television and swore off plane travel. She began relying on a wood-burning stove.

"I was panic-stricken," the 50-year-old recalled, her voice shaking. "Devastated. Depressed. Afraid. Vulnerable. Weak. Alone. Just terrible."

I get where she's coming from, but I don't have the same belief that society will crumble and fall that a survivalist has. I think we're heading toward a time of less available resources (due to higher costs, not availability; the rich will always be able to get what they want by virtue of being rich). It'll be a slow grind down for the middle class.

I think these folks are, as noted above, being driven more by a sense of fear and 'how do I protect myself' than anything. I get it, really. I'm just not sure that's the best way to focus things.

De-materializing, for me, is more about freedom than fear. It's also more about doing a tiny bit of good by being aware that one human doesn't really need to be consuming so much space, energy, housing, fuel and food as well as expelling so much waste (carbon, trash and wastewater, as a start).

I have read that we, as Americans, are about 3% of the worlds population, but consume 23% of the worlds resources and expell about 27% of it's carbon waste. (not 100% on those numbers... but I believe they are close).

Think about that. 3% of the worlds population chewing up One Fourth of everything, and spitting out an equivalent pile of waste.

I don't want to disappear, I just want to get more in balance with what a person needs to be happy and comfortable vs. what a person wants (or thinks they want) as taught to us by future generations of rich.

The rich I know from my silicon valley (and to a degree, here in Boulder) technology company days seem to believe in multiple cars, multiple homes, frequent air travel via commercial or even private jets, huge 3rd houses in the form of boats, used, at most, 4 weeks a year... you get the idea). The amount of wasteful use of resources that a tech geek with too much money can create is almost unimaginable.

I just no longer get the value of that way of living. The overhead and cost to the person maintaining it is huge, the return of being owned by all that stuff is questionable and the impact on the planet of consuming the resources of a small village in China, all by yourself is, well, more than a little selfish.

I know this is just my own opinion on this, and I know a fair number of people that live this lifestyle, some I consider good friends. It doesn't make it OK though.

I just wish people would stop more often and think about what they need, really need, to live a happy life.

I doubt all the excess stuff they own really does much to answer that question.

Gadgets

This dematerializing has been going on for me for about 9 months now and going well.

What I'm finding is I really do need alot less than I thought I did. It wasn't just an experiment, it was, and is, a true simplification.

I have one primary weakness: Hardware. in particular, gadgets. I love gadgets and there's always a new one. that means if I'm playing with new stuff all the time, the old stuff accumulates. And I'm loath to get rid of the old stuff because there's a sense of history there (sort of like books), but in a shorter timescale.

So, I'm going to start getting rid of the gadgets as well once I don't use them anymore. I think I'd like to see how few things I can get it down to and still feel like I'm not limiting myself. I just gave my OPLC (the One Laptop Per Child linux PC for kids in poor countries) to an old friend for her kids. I'll be giving (and in some cases selling) things to folks that need them as they flow through my life. Most gadgets are good for 6 months (for me... I've learned all I can in about that time) so, like books, I can pass them on to someone else who can use them for their pure functionality (recording audio, video, media. Creating art. Whatever is is they do with it).

When I was about 20 or so a friend came over to my apartment and checked out my computer room which was full of Apple II's running BBS software and (at the time) advanced graphics software. He said: "What that hell do you need all this gear for?" (he was a gear freak himself, so this was both damning and great praise, at the teim).

I didn't have a good answer then, and I still don't. I really don't need all this gear. Some of it, yes, but not so much all of it.

One of each of the things I regularly use is plenty. For now, I'll still buy the new as it comes out, but I'll recycle the old to places it'll do good.